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“Each
vocation is a vocation to physical, spiritual and moral motherhood,
and the preparation for this means to become ready to give life.”
Gianna
Beretta Molla was born to the large family of Alberto and Maria
de Michelli in the Italian town of Magenta. At the age of 18 Gianna
took on the job of educator of the youngest girls in the Catholic
Action (CA). She revealed herself to be an energetic person, full
of fire and initiative. Until her death she remained a member of
CA living in its spirit: her life grounded in prayer and apostolic
action towards her neighbor, especially those who are far from God.
In her work she emphasized the role and the meaning of suffering
and sacrifice as the way to holiness.
Gianna
decided to study medicine. This decision was more a response to
her calling than the choice of a career: “This ( i.e. practising
medicine,) is a priest-like mission! Just as a priest may touch
Jesus [in Holy Communion], we doctors touch Jesus in the bodies
of the sick: the poor, the young, the old, the children.”
Even as a doctor Gianna Beretta never departed from her dream to
become a missionary. She planned to go to Brazil where her brother,
Fr. Alberto, was in the missions. He however advised her not to
come, as he feared the tropical climate might be harmful to Beretta’s
health.
Her
life reached the difficult question of “my vocation?”
She prayed a lot, talked to her spiritual director and undertook
a pilgrimage to Lourdes to clarify her thoughts about her vocation.
Finally she realized that her happiness and mission lay in family
life.
In
1955 she married Peter Molla in Magenta. Both were deeply rooted
in faith and saw in the grace of the sacrament of marriage the happiness
of their family. After giving birth to her first three children
(each pregnancy having been difficult), during her fourth pregnancy
a tumour in the uterus was discovered and it would have to be removed.
Being a doctor Gianna was aware of the high risk of such an operation
for her unborn child. Peter Molla remembers her decision: “When
the day of birth approached, she was very frank: ‘....if you
have to decide between me and the child, there is no hesitation.
I insist that you decide for the child. Save the child!’”
On
Good Friday 1962 the birthing started. On Easter Saturday, just
as the Easter bells started ringing, a healthy girl was born –
Gianna Emmanuela. Her mother suffered a lot during the following
days and her health became worse and one week after giving birth
the agony began. Beretta often repeated during her suffering: “Jesus,
I love you, Jesus, I love you.” She died on April 28, 1962.
On
September 23, 1973 Gianna Beretta Molla was beatified by Pope Paul
VI. She was called “the mother from the diocese of Mailand,
who – in order to give life to her daughter – consciously
sacrificed her own.” (Pope Paul VI.)
On
May 16, 2004 she was declared a saint by John Paul II. During the
celebrations the Holy Father said, “Gianna Beretta Molla followed
the example of Christ and as a holy, family mother she was heroically
faithful to her comitment that she made on her wedding day.... The
highest sacrifice, which was sealed by her life, testifies that
only one who has the courage to surrender totally to God and his
brothers, will truly find himself ... May our time, through the
example of Gianna Beretta Molla, be able to discover the pure, chaste
and fruitful beauty of conjugal love, which is lived as response
to the divine calling!”
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